To the world, a woman might look like the epitome of confidence and poise. But internally there are some nagging insecurities that stress them out. If you are in a relation with an Indian woman then these are the insecurities you have to help her work out.
1. Size Matters
For most women, the weight issue has been a big problem zone. It doesn’t matter what the world thinks about them, what matters is that they do not always find themselves beautiful.
2. He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not?
Despite being in safe and stable relationships, women tend to keep doubting whether it will last or not. This insecurity also stems from the fact that with age a woman feels that her husband may not find her as interesting or attractive.
3. All The HELP You Can Get
For Indian women getting and keeping good domestic help is a source of constant worry. If the maid is absent or late or seen talking to someone else, the employer starts getting nightmares of the maid leaving.
4. Show Me The Money
Of course everyone is insecure to some extent about money. But for women planning a future with someone, money and security means a stable life ahead. If the woman earns more than her man, an added stress would be to ensure that he still feels manly enough in the relation.
5. Friends And Family
Being accepted and liked by his friends and family are very important to a woman. If despite her efforts she has been unable to hit it off, it gets her thinking if they have been getting bad reviews about her (from him obviously).
6. No More Flirting
When he stops flirting with her, she starts thinking that maybe he doesn’t find her that attractive. This could mean danger to their relationship, which she is already insecure about.
7. Bedtime Stories
Indian women have been brought up thining that a woman is not supposed to like physical relations or want it often, and should just be submissive. A man on the other hand is sexually aggressive and will want it frequently. So if he stops showing up in bed as often, she might think that she is not doing something right.
8. The Ex Phobia
If you have been dating very good-looking or successful women in your past, she may compare herself often to them and fret whether she is falling short in any department. She deliberately puts herself down thinking that this is how he may view her in comparison too.