FIRST DATE, for sure, almost all of us have experienced or are going to experience. It’s a TWO WORD phenomenon that follows after the precious THREE WORD magic. LOVE is in the AIR, is what overpowers all other elements in life at this stage. And for all the hype this First Date gets, it is certainly worth all the attention.
Though you are excited and eager to attend the First Date of your Love Life, it equally sets your heart rate high, butterflies running everywhere inside your body and goose bumps with the very thought of it.
24*7, your mind revolves around this Date and ways of making it the Best One. You are not the only one, we all do. We list you the common, most exciting thoughts we have all gone through:
Dress The Best
The very moment, both of you decide to meet on a particular day (counted as your First Date), thoughts about the best dress to wear for that occasion starts popping up. Both of you want to look the best and the attire you wear plays a vital role in the celebration.
I guarantee, you will not be free from this thought till the end. “Will I look nice? Will I look smart?…..” shall keep hovering into your mind throughout. You don’t want to look awkward in anyway.
Gifting has been in the society from the early days and how can you stay away from this thought at all. Both the partners would like to gift something that probably makes each other happy. For this, we go all our way to find out what is it they like the most. Try to get hold of the information indirectly from them, or through friends. It’s such a loving experience.
Plan It Out
Simply fixing a date and venue to meet isn’t what we all do for our First Date. “Okay, we meet here and then what?” Generally, this thought is supposed to be on in the mind of the guy (social notion, I am the MAN) but girls think equally. “What Next”;”How can we make the most of this time” and many more…PLAN, PLAN & PLAN.
Although you may have met several times before on different occasions or with friends, you hardly paid attention to what you say and how you say. But, now as the days of your First Date starts nearing, you are more engaged on what you would say during that time and how you would like to present your words to make your partner feel special.
Want To Tell Your Friends
Do you want your friends to know, where and with whom you are going out for a Date? Some are straight forward and don’t mind sharing this information, but some are quite not open or probably would like to keep it a secret affair.
In such cases, the dilemma is more. “I just hope my friends don’t come to know about this; or I think I should at least tell him/her……” Confused…
Boy My Joy
Mostly this thought crops up in the minds of the girl. We say LOVE IS BLIND but when you are out for a First Date, the trust level still has a bit of gap, which strongly builds up over a couple of more meetings. “I just hope he is a nice, decent guy; Will he try to take advantage of certain situations; I just hope he doesn’t drink much and many more…”
Hair & Make Up
Preparation of girls is many and along with it comes their hair and make-up. Influenced by Bollywood movies, they want their hair also to play an important role in the lovely love atmosphere. Hairs blowing with the wind or a pick of strands falling over their eyes and so on…occupy their minds equally. So does make-up; “Should it be bright, light, less make-up or more, nail paints, accessories along with the clothing…” the List is Long.
The least noted yet very important, no one can MISS IT. Perfumes, Deo’s or Scents…one cannot ignore. Along with the Best Looks, you want to Smell Good as well. You go hunting for the best fragrance; your partner may like it. You end up testing all that’s up on the shelves, yet you are confused. And when you choose one, you just keep thinking that he/she likes the fragrance from you.
The feeling is amazing, the time spent is wonderful and the memories worth cherishing lifelong.
Let LOVE be in the AIR always.